夜深人静的这一刻，你会是在做什么呢？睡了吗？还没睡得话这么夜了还可以做什么呢？在这枯寂的夜里，我的脑一片空白，但现实里的我需要用我这颗小脑袋想关于功课上的问题。偏偏不幸的是我对这一科功课完全就像“孙悟空遇着如来佛”（这是一句歇后语，看不明的人就问我吧。）唉，再过多几个小时，我就要交上的功课我竟然还可以一点头绪都没有。。。唉，这可真叫我难挨啊！夜深人静的这一刻，我也想好像你们可以躺在床上进入梦乡。。。我。。。唉。。。现实总是残酷的。。。无奈的我，还是回到我的功课上了。。。。。。。
在这世上没有人是孤单的，虽说每个人都是个体，但人类是群体生活的，所以分担与分享在我们的生活扮演着非常重要的角色。。。没有人应该永远生活在悲伤的世界！生活是充满乐趣的，只是人们的生活都过的匆匆忙忙的，而没时间停下来看这美丽的世界！但是这世界是需要有黑色才可以了解白色是多么的纯洁，同样的要有悲伤才懂得幸福是怎么一回事！但是懂得珍惜的人、理解的了的人。。。不多 (GPei, 2005)！所以简单来说，我们都是一直在生活中学习着，生活就像一堂课，里面包含的课业是人们一生所要学习的课程，这个科系的毕业证书是历史。。。
In our life, we often use irrational methods to solve conflict, most of the people prefer to solve their problem with the irrational methods, this might without many logical thinking in it, but they will feel that the ways to solve the problem is the way that they will feel comfort and the best…
irrational methods such as:
1. avoiding or ignoring the issue of conflict
2. involving in illegal means to solve conflict
3. being persuasive or emotional to divert others’ attention without any good reasons
4. using force or resorting to aggression
From the general statistic, avoiding or ignoring the issue of conflict is what most of the people will do when they face any conflict…鸵鸟心态!Secondly, most of the adult will try to involving in some illegal means in order to solve conflict like bribes…违法省麻烦？Sometimes, people also being persuasive or emotional to divert others’ attention without any good reasons…转话题快的像翻书。But got a part of the people also using force or resorting to aggression…滥用权势，真恶人！But these all strategies are not as a good examples! So people in E- generation, please think of others rational methods to solve your conflict lo!Be a more perfect person!
那天，无意中看到一片蛮好笑的文章，突发奇想，想和朋友们分享：
男生必备条件：
首先你要靓仔，
你要是不靓仔，哪你就要有钱；
你要是没有钱，那你就得高大威猛；
你要是不高大威猛，那你就要会说话；
你要是不会说话，那你就得幽默风趣；
你要是不幽默风趣，那起码你要会说说笑；
你要是不会说说笑，那你就得体贴一点；
你要是连体贴也不会，那么就温柔些吧；
如果老是温柔不来，那你就要扮COOL;
你要是连扮COOL都不会，那你就要装老实；
如果你看起来怎么都不老实，那么你唯有靠运气吧！
女生必备条件：
首先你要靓女，
你要是不靓女，哪你就要有气质；
你要是没有气质，那你就要懂得温柔；
你要是不懂得温柔，那你就要善解人意；
你要是不善解人意，那你就要个子长得还可以；
你要是个子长得有点抱歉的话，那起码你要会打扮；
你要是连打扮也不会，那你就得贤淑一点；
你要是不会煮饭做家务，那么么跟你妈学点儿吧；
如果你连学都懒得学，那你就要厚着面皮主动追求男生;
你要是不削主动追求男生，那你就要家里有钱；
如果你连钱都没有，那么你唯有靠缘分吧！
事实上，现代男女择偶的条件真的是这样吗？它的优先次序，真的是这样吗？或许，这是大部分人的择偶条件吧，但我也认为随着年龄的增长，人们的择偶条件也会改变吧？！ 
A funny and really broken malay conversation from two person! 
A: so…mula sekarang…kemudian melayu anda akan bertambah baik,tak apa…boleh teman anda mengulangkaji…jangan paise there
B: tak mahu!saya rayu anda la
A: tak apa…anda patut mengulangkaji sekarang, jika tidak melayu anda akan karat
B: sudah karat la
A: jangan rayu ku…buat demikian adalah untuk kebaikan anda…oleh itu, patut melatih lebih la
B: saya tak tahu macam mana "describe" saya punya otak sekarang!
A: jawab saya
B: "be patient" la rascal kalau nak saya "type" dalam melayu hendak lah bagi sedikit masa untuk saya lah!boleh kah?
B: my brain n tounge cramp together liao…dun wanna torture me liao pls!
A: hey…jangan cakap bahasa orang putih leh
B: 我们来说华语好吗？
A: nope
B: 大家的母语，这样是否好很多呢？y nope wo?
A: bahasa kebangsaan…untuk membukti ketaatan kita
B: wah ketaatan pula?jangan cakap dalam melayu lagi boleh kah?ini memang boleh bunuh saya punya la
A: jangan risau tak akan bunuh anda
B: jadi besok mahu pergi ke taman extreme?
A: harap boleh pergi…tapi…
B: tapi apa? kalau ada hati mahu pergi, "then" pergi lo
A: apa itu "then" jangan cakap bahasa mat saleh
B: jangan lah macam itu…saya "will" tangkis punya tau?jangan la jadi orang jahat la gadis cantik
A: mana ada gadis cantik ?siapa orang jahat mana ada?
B: anda lah itu gadis cantik dan boleh juga orang jahat
A: minta maaf la…saya tak tuhu saya ini jahat
B: minta apa maaf la…anda boleh minta barang atau hal lain tetapi jangan minta maaf kepada ku lagi boleh ka?
A: em…hari ini berlatih sehingga sini…kami berterus esok la…anda boleh rehat sekejap
B: sangat bagusnya cikgu ni
A: memang la….
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this sunday at extreme park sunway 9am: charity games day!
paint ball at rm65 per pax (50 paletters)
target shooting: RM10
go kart:rm20 (10 laps)
terrain vehicle: rm40
car wash: rm10
Khoo jing jing (26/ 2), Valerie Soo Wooi Chee (25/ 7), Tan Hui Boon (26/ 9) Arrogance, fieriness, smart, intelligent, inviolably, incoercible etc……. this kinds of descriptions might be able to be found from others on my three “nieces”, but in fact are they really that can let people awestruck for? So many times they have said to me that people around were really misinterpreted themselves. But so how, they won’t care about it and will definitely keep on be themselves and won’t make any changes or pretend for just after people comments. But how and why they will become my nieces? This details I also don’t really understand either but what is the true might just the fate circle few of us together, no matter we are always been together or might just meet a few times in few months, the feeling on each others still there and do not easily get decline… Actually they shares few similarities, they are smart, intelligences these should not deny. Three of them like to write blogs and declare their feeling and never hide behind people. They got great talents in writing journals and also crap! Not only this, the “eldest niece” got quite interest and really can design some fantastic art work by using the photoshop software. 他们也蛮独来独往的，还拥有独特的看法。When they face problems, they surely got their own perspective and ideas to solve it… and also they will not fear about the challenges, they just like challenge! They all like to read…no matter novels, magazines, or philosophy. When talks about story books or novels, people nowadays will talk about HARRY POTTER, since is mania at these days…among three of them the “middle niece” is the No.1 fans of his…she will never miss any chances to get know more about HARRY POTTER. She can tell anything about HARRY and always up to date! They all look like 女强人, 不容易倒下，however in reality, they not really as tough as bucky ball…they will also have their time when their emotional collapse, and geist. Many of others think that they不轻易掉泪, nevertheless, they are quite geist, they will also weep if the movie they watch was touch. 长情 also one of their characteristic, especially the “youngest niece”. They are really adorable and nice to be friends. They can share no matter joys or tears… because they also know the words “sharing is caring”! As a friend and “sook sook” I hope that three of my nieces will have a bright and hot prospect future, no matter where are they, will just in happy and enjoyable mood. All the best and good luck to all my nieces…….
每个人悲观与乐观的定义是否一样呢？并不。。。
哪普遍来说悲观是什么，而乐观又是什么？
还记得听过一个哲理，关于悲观与乐观的人的看法：
当一件事情进入低潮时，悲观的人会想这已经是谷底了。。。没有别的事会比这来得更糟。
但乐观的人则会想这并不是最糟的。。。事情还可以更糟。。。
至于我，我想我是一个乐观的人吧，或许我这样说有人不认同，但我想说的是无论什么事情，还是我所说的，或许是带有一丝丝负面的看法，但我想的并不是最糟的啊，我还是认为事情可以去得更糟。。。所以，我想我还是乐观的吧！哈哈哈。。。
Sometimes, something, somehow it really makes some difficulties for me to start something…….always think of how to start it? Where to start? No matter is my daily life or others work like academic stuffs, especially when I dealing with the assignment that I really in doubtful such as MORAL STUDIES! What the heck is that? Sigh……. I know I should not blame too much about that but I really getting narrow and narrow thinking and idea about how to do and even how to start the assignment lo……. Sigh just like blogging…….actually got so many things want to share out but really don’t know where to start and don’t know how I going to start it so at the end I just give up. Many others things in my life also because hard to get started and finally missed. 遗憾遗憾。。。俗语说得好：“万事起头难。”
手机躺在那里一整天了，它也和我一样休息了一整天，它累了，没能量了，电池的电耗尽了。几声的“呻吟”后它也不技倒下了，我看着它心在想，我需要将它带到它能量的来源将其充电吗？还是就让它躺在哪儿呢？反正它也只是在扮演着一个无奈陪伴主人一样无聊的可怜手机。。。反正也不会收到任何来电或任何短信。。。为何我还要这么残忍要让它陪伴我得无聊人生呢？
